Business Eninology: April 2013

Jumat, 12 April 2013

Sexy Lips

Not posting for a week and looked for something that I can talk about here as my post. So here's my newest doodle on paint:

Lol. What I see is only super wide head, messy hair, and weird fingers. And also sexy lips! Sorry for posting this useless doodle here but I really don't know what to post but I really want to post. And like usually, it ends up with randomness.

PS: Such a weird title, I know. The last time I read 'sexy lips' is in my Camera360 app in my cellphone while editing my selfie photos.

Rabu, 10 April 2013

Dissatisfied? Good!

Why do you need a coach? Why do you need to change your environment? Here's a reason: You need to be around people whose dreams for you are bigger than your dreams are for yourself. One thing a coach does is increase your dissatisfaction with status quo. And that is the only proven impetus to change - dissatisfaction.

If you aren't dissatisfied (weight, sexual fulfillment, wealth and relationships are the main concerns for most people), you will not change or it won't be a lasting change. Being around people who increase your dissatisfaction is important. If everyone in your world is only always telling you that everything is okay and you're okay, that's a problem. Those people are called Enablers. And the only thing Enablers are good for is increasing mediocrity in your life.

You don't have to get rid of every Enabler to succeed. (You might be married to them!) but you do need to add some Encouragers. In fact, beware of counselors who only tell you to get rid of people. Isolation has never solved any problem. On the other hand, Encouragers increase your motivation by instilling in your hope for a better future. Get some of those folks if you don't have them. And get them quick!

I thank God for every moment of discomfort because each one inspired me to move and He directed my path to some place greater. Instead of being uncomfortable and upset about it, look for what the moment is meant to teach you. Yes, sometimes, you are meant to sit still and other times you're meant to move but NO TIMES are you supposed to complain. Either get happy where you are or get moving to somewhere else!

Wise counselors help you figure out which it is time to do.

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Jumat, 05 April 2013

Priority

"Setiap orang pasti punya prioritas dalam hidupnya."

-(Milli & Nathan)-

Ada di urutan keberapakah aku dalam urutan prioritasmu?

Kamis, 04 April 2013

Is television killing your future?

How much television are you watching? Americans are spending an average of thirty-four hours a week watching television. Hours and hours of television watching is costing you money. Bet on it! Saw this from Pamela Lawhorne and thought it was profound:

If you watch more TV than you read books... it's costing you money...
If you gossip more than you attend webinars or seminars.. it's costing you money...
If you complain more than you put your hands to work doing what you claim you want to do... it's costing you money...
If you've been praying for change, but find yourself watching TV while you're waiting for God to tell you and show you the way... you're missing His guidance...
If you've been praying for more money, but refuse to do anything about it.. then you're losing money due to your own neglect....
Take a 2nd look at how much you're losing watching TV, and rethink what you "can't afford" again!

There are 2080 work hours in a year for most US workers. You can figure that you're costing yourself anywhere from a few hundred dollars to a few thousand dollars per week while feeding your TV habit depending upon your income or potential income. Here's the punchline: Read instead!! Wondering what to read or where to start? Try this list!

I am a fan of audio books and programs. I like to listen as I work, travel and even exercise. Maybe try it for yourself. One thing is probable... television could be killing your vision and your future. Can you turn it off if it means the fulfillment of your purpose? Sure you can!

My friend, Troy Nalls, says you shouldn't watch television until you can buy a station. I probably won't go there, but I can do better, too!

4 Ways to Make Real Changes in Your Behavior

Lose weight? Have better sex? Sleep better? Live longer? Enjoy life more? Wait! You had me at better sex!

I'm reading Timothy Ferriss' The 4-Hour Body right now and it's blowing my mind! I truly think (along with The 4-Hour Workweek) I've stumbled upon something good here. I like the way this guy thinks. I think you will, too, because he gets results and shows other people how to do the same. My hero!

In the section talking about rapid weight-loss (which I am going to read and re-read, if needed) he gets into a discussion I thought I'd share with you, my friends:

4 Steps to Changing Your Behavior

1. Make it conscious. Become aware of all of your actions. Make them public if you need to. When it comes to losing weight, for example, his first nugget is to start taking pictures of everything you eat before you put it into your mouth and post it. Research shows this to be even more effective than using food diaries.

2. Make it a game. Don't take it so seriously. Make it play for you and you're more likely to keep it up. Also, by making it a game, he suggests that you measure your activity. Measure what? Get the book. The most important thing is you begin to measure something. Measuring something is the key. In a sales context, do you measure your prospecting activities or do you just get up and get going? What gets measured gets done.

3. Make it competitive. Incorporate a fear of loss. This is more powerful than a promise to gain. It really is. You need a tangible risk of public failure in competition with your peers. This is the social comparison theory. You will be spurred on by both positive examples as models and inspiration and you'll also feel better about yourself because you're not as bad as the worst person in the competition. What if you are the worst in the bunch? LOL I can't help you there.

4. Make the change small and temporary. Don't try to change everything about your life, money, business, health or relationships all at once. Set a small, achievable goal that will get you going with a bang and build your confidence. By "temporary" it means that you don't need to try and project the rest of your life at this time. Just change something (anything) now. That's all.

If you've got areas in which you're feeling a little bit (or a lot) stuck, I believe these tips can help you. Try them. TRY SOMETHING! Decide on the smallest minimal change you can make an do it immediately!And then let me know the area you need change in and how it goes for you. I want to know!

You're on your way!

Selasa, 02 April 2013

Impossible

I visited Maddi Jane's soundcloud, and I was amazed. She's very talented! Her voice is very enchanting, it feels like I forced to sing along with her while listening her singing. Do you know Maddi Jane? If you don't, open Google search and find out! You won't regret it ;) this song, Impossible is one of songs she made a cover by herself. This song is actually popularized by Shontelle.

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I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did, I did

And you were strong and I was not
My illusion, my mistake
I was careless, I forgot
I did, I did

And now when all is done
There is nothing to say
You have gone and so effortlessly
You have won
You can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

Falling out of love is hard
Falling for betrayal is worst
Broken trust and broken hearts
I know, I know

Thinking all you need is there
Building faith on love and words
Empty promises will wear
I know, I know

And now when all is gone
There is nothing to say
And if you’re done with embarrassing me
On your own you can go ahead tell them

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible!
Ooh impossible...

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did

Tell them all I know now
Shout it from the roof tops
Write it on the sky line
All we had is gone now

Tell them I was happy
And my heart is broken
All my scars are open
Tell them what I hoped would be
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible
Impossible, impossible

I remember years ago
Someone told me I should take
Caution when it comes to love
I did...

This is her.

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Senin, 01 April 2013

Hello, April

Hello people! Time flies so fast... I need to say hello to April already.
Today's April Fool, have you prank someone yet? I haven't... But I really want to :p
Since I'm still in my Easter holiday, I do anything in slow motion and didn't care about any of my homeworks. I didn't study anything, too! Such a lazy girl, right? -_____- but I think I can't do this anymore. I'll have my national final exam starting with April 22. I need to study hard. Very hard! (ง'̀o'́)ง

Tomorrow I'll have my yearbook photoshoot with my class and 9A class! 9B and 9D class have theirs today, so tomorrow's our turn! :D I've chose what outfit I'll wear for the photoshoot, I'll share it soon (and maybe it'll be my first outfit post! Yeah I said maybe). I feel like I can't wait for tomorrow, I'm so excited! We'll gather at the school at 9 AM and take photoshoot at Benton Junction, Karawaci. I'm not really agree with choosing this place to take yearbook photoshoot, actually. I prefer a place that more natural... But I was absent when they discussed where to take photoshoot, so... Never mind, as long as everybody agreed :3

Tomorrow is also the last day of my holiday, which means I'll back to school on April 3... Back to school, back to study, back to books... Sigh. But that's my job, meeting books and study as a student! What I need to do is just enjoy it! :D