Jumat, 04 November 2011

For those girls who always there beside me.

Two Voices, One Song - Barbie and A Diamond Castle

So rare to find a friend like you
Somehow when you're around, the sky is always blue
The way we talk, the things you say
The way you make it all okay
And how you know all of my jokes
But you laugh anyway!


If I could wish for one thing
I'd take the smile that you bring
Wherever you go in this world
I'll come along
Together we dream the same dream
Forever I'm here for you
You're here for me


Two voices, one song...

Reopening.

Yaaa, sebutlah reopening -____-
Sebenernya sebelum gue bikin blog ini, gue udah punya yang postnya udah banyaaak, tapi sayang sekali setelah sekian lama gue gak buka itu blog, gue udah lupa email lengkap beserta passwordnya.

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Mohon doanya yah supaya suatu hari nanti gue terilhami, atau mungkin terbismai ato terrafaeli sehingga gue bisa inget email sama password gue yang dulu. Amiiin.

Udah dulu ya kawan. Berhubung gue ini anak yang rajin dan patuh kepada orangtua, gue harus cuci piring dulu. I'm pretty busy tonight, apalagi entar gue masih pengen keramas. Kan? Gue ini emang wanita sibuk.

Kamis, 03 November 2011

How am I doing? Honestly?


One of the things that amazes me the most is how people don't allow me to have moods, bad days or even be angry about anything. Nothing! I love social media and engaging people. I don't consider myself a very private person and don't mind sharing what's on my mind. What's funny, however, is how people react (over-react?) whenever I post a Status Update that says anything except "I'm happy, happy, happy, happy, happy!"

Come on, folks.

I'm kind of pissed about it really. If I say anything about having a hard day, being mad about something, being tired or stressed, people freak out. Some even say stuff like "You're better than that!" or something else that suggests that I'm not supposed to be human or a common man. Some people get mad at me. They tend to forget that 99% of the time I reveal something negative, I'm also saying I'm taking it to God in prayer. They say things like "How am I supposed to make it through the day when you aren't encouraging me?!"

People! Christ is there for you and He neither sleeps nor slumbers. I do. Mr. "Live BIG! Die Empty." needs some zzzz's right now.

This is part of the pressure that makes public figures feel like retreating into sex, drugs and deviant behavior. Don't worry. I'm not going that direction. But I see how some of these things happen. People feel pressure to be perfect and if/when they're not, people come down on them HARD!

This is the same stuff that hinders people from getting real deliverance from their problems. You ask someone how they're doing and - especially if they're a Christian - they're supposed to say "I'm blessed and highly favored of the Lord!!" all the time, every time, no exceptions! They are slow to say, "Hey, would you pray for me when you think of it. This is a tough season." You don't want to sound unspiritual.

So...how am I doing? I'm great. Not in a happy talk way. I'm doing fine. I'm tired, however. It's been a long week. I feel like I've been in a boxing match physically and emotionally. It's probably time for a vacation and certainly time for a breakthrough in some areas. I need to take some courageous chances. Look for that from me. I'll be sticking my neck out there even more over the next several weeks.

Pray for me. E-mail me your prayer request, too. I'd be glad to pray for you! I'm going to get a cup of coffee and dive into my e-mails now. Thanks for the therapy session. I'm done complaining. I'm blessed and highly favored!!

Senin, 31 Oktober 2011

7 Ways to Make Social Media Work Harder for You


1. First of all, you want to make sure you've created and updated profiles on all of the most popular social media sites. If you have, you want to connect to well-connected people so the power of their networks will begin to work for you. The most popular, of course, is Facebook...by far. But there's also LinkedIn, Twitter and the fast-growing Google+. Here are links to connect with me. I'd be proud to know you and I share tips and resources all the time!

Mark Anthony McCray on Facebook
Mark Anthony McCray on Twitter
Mark Anthony McCray on LinkedIn
Mark Anthony McCray on Google+

2. You will want to create a page for your business if you don't have one. It's easy. Facebook shows you how. Then invite your current contacts to connect with you. You can email all of your non-Facebook contacts and invite them to "Like" your Facebook fan or business page! Here's how:

1. Click on "Edit Page" to the upper right once you are on your business page.
2. On the left, you will see a menu of options. Click on "Resources"
3. You will see a few more options to the right. Click on "Tell Your Fans"
4. You will see options to contact your Yahoo!, Comcast, AOL and other address books there.
5. You can also contact up to 5000 people from your Outlook Address Book if you choose "Other Tools" and upload your Outlook address book. LinkedIn is one of your options, as well!

Good luck! This should help your social media marketing be more successful if you can reconnect with people who you've known and done business with outside of Facebook!

3. Once you have reached 25 connections on your Facebook page, Facebook allows you to shorten the domain to something more attractive. Use this link to shorten your web domains on Facebook: http://facebook.com/username and be selective. You can only do this once.

4. You can use a site like Fiverr.com to have some graphics made for you such as logos and product mock-ups. There are dozens of artists and other regular people who will do all kinds of neat things for you for only $5. I've used it myself several times with great results!

5. Did you know you can download a copy of everything you've ever posted on Facebook? I just did and I have a file of all my Status Updates, etc since 2008! This is a great things because I am going to be able to go back and capture some of the best stuff for use in my blogs and other writings! If you click on "Account Settings" on your Home page, you'll see an option to "Download a copy" of your Facebook data. Just follow the instructions and you'll receive an email with a backup copy of all your photos, messages, status updates and more shortly.

6. I may be the last person to discover this, but if you add Klout for Google Chrome to your browser (assuming you use Chrome, as I do) it shows you everyone's Klout score as you Tweet. Your's too! Klout at the Chrome Webstore I like it because watching my score touches my competitive side and, more importantly, keeps me accountable to stay engaged with my contacts.

7. FINALLY....Join my Facebook Experts Group....If you are a writer, speaker, coach, trainer, author or ANYTHING that fits into the "Expert" market space, you need to be a part of this group! Nothing against motivational quotes and scriptures, but that's not what this group is for. This group is all about "shop talk" and exchanging tips, resources, etc. that will HELP YOU BUILD YOUR BUSINESS.

Join us and please add someone else who you think will be a great resource and/or recipient! The philosophy of this page is simple...if you know where the water is, point it out to other thirsty folks!!!

Kamis, 27 Oktober 2011

Marketing for BIG Impact with small Dollars

I've been keeping a small file of marketing ideas especially for entrepreneurs and small business owners for years. Many I've used myself and some I've either seen other business owners use. All are effective and all require you to actually DO SOMETHING!! But they don't necessarily cost a lot of money. You might be surprised at how much impact you can generate for a few bucks.



Before we get going, you might want to read some of my previous blogs on marketing so you know where I'm coming from. One is called "The Ten Commandments of Marketing Yourself, Your Product or Your Services" and it will give you a baseline understanding of my philosophies regarding marketing.

Another that you'll want to check out is called "The Nine Most Powerful Words You Can Utter" and I've also written an article about using social media effectively called "Mark's 10 Be's of Social Media" and I'd love your feedback on any of them! I think there's helpful information for you. My heart goes out to the entrepreneur. Believe me. I understand the challenges of generating business from scratch!

Here's a list of some cheap, cheap tactics you can use now!

1. If you are targeting local businesses or offices, go to a cookie place and buy one of those HUGE cookies. Have them paint your name and number on the cookie using icing. Deliver it in person. Everyone will be talking about you for days! It's important NOT TO USE SMALL COOKIES. You want to use a big cookie because they are too big for one person to eat alone...forcing at least a few conversations about you and your company!

2. Hold a contest. A simple contest or questionnaire will work even without a prize...or much of a prize. For example, email or use social media to ask people what you should call your company. Tell them your top three choices for names or logos. Ask for their feedback. People are always glad to share their opinions and, in the process, you will have an opportunity to tell them all about your practice. It works!

3. It's an overlooked tactic because it takes a little work, but make some cheap flyers and pass them out door-to-door. If you want to turn it up a notch, approach other companies and offer to deliver their flyers for them! If you can get just a few to say "yes" it will pay for your own flyers right away. Want to turn it up another notch? Get some neighborhood kids to hang them on doors for you. Just don't litter! I don't want any calls from jail. I've done this one before. It works really well if you need to move some feet to your business location.

4. Hire an artist (Craigslist will do just fine.) to use chalk to draw your company name and logo on a busy street downtown with directions to your shop or to your website. People will think it's neat. They will remember. Take a bunch of pictures for your social media site. Tweet it. Fun is memorable! It's cheap, too. You can always find a local college student who will be willing to the job for you.

5. I like to call T-Shirts walking billboards because they are cheap and always tell a story. Give some away. Make it a big deal or some kind of contest. You only need a dozen or two and that few can be had for not much at all. People like free things. Plus they have what I call "trophy value" if you do a contest. People will be glad to tell others how they won it every time. It's a win for you. Just be sure to include your website in the design.

Got any ideas you want to add? Please email mark@livebigdieempty.com and I can include them in a future blog or update! The bottom line is you can't be afraid to do something different. Getting people to talk about you is part of the point! Marketing Outrageously by Jon Spoelstra is an excellent and fun read to help you break out of the normal ways of thinking about marketing.




Of course, I have to make one more mention. I wrote an EBook called "10 Ultimate No B.S. #MonsterTips to Help You Sell More and Earn More Money NOW!" and it's important because you have to know how to close the business once people start calling you. Please purchase a copy if you need more business!

Senin, 24 Oktober 2011

Whatever you say about yourself, you are right!

It has been said that the only difference between successful people and unsuccessful people is how they think. After all, everyone has the same number of hours in the day, right? All people have had the same challenges. But do we truly become what we think about? How so? If that is true, we must really do a better job of examining and managing our thoughts.

I’ve always found Numbers, Chapter 13 to be an excellent passage to read and use as a mirror regarding my own thinking. It relates the story of Moses sending spies to look at the Promised Land, its inhabitants, its fortifications and its fruit prior to Israel going into it. As you come to the end of it, you see the horrible tragedy of negative self-perception in action.

The majority of the men – the Bible says they were leaders from among the tribes – did not believe they could be successful displacing the natives and walking into what the Lord had promised them. Only two dissented. Caleb, in verse 30, spoke in terms of what they WOULD do, not just could do. The others had what teachers call “the grasshopper mentality” meaning they saw themselves as small and were convinced that others saw them as small, too.



Whatever you say about yourself, you are right!

I am not like the spies with the evil report. I am a Godly optimist. I work to believe and expect the best all the time. It’s a chore. I get down like everyone else. However, when it comes to things like destiny and promise, I endeavor to believe God. So, I take some tremendous positive lessons from this pericope. Four thoughts to be specific:

1. God will often show you more for your future well before you possess your future. Just like Moses sending spies out into the Promised Land to get a report, I believe you have seen a glimpse or been told of great things ahead for yourself. Sometimes they come in the form of dreams…or prophecies. However they come, they can be quite stirring to the point where you can almost see yourself there.

2. The future that God has for you is going to be abundant. The future that God has for you isn’t one of lack or struggle. He wants good for you and your family. He isn’t going to plan danger and harm for His children. He is a good Father. Jesus discussed this often. God doesn’t “have it in” for you. He is working to set up circumstances to bless you.

3. The future that God has for you is going to be intimidating. No one said it’s going to be easy. You will have opponents if you’re attempting anything big, anything grand, anything worthwhile. In business, they say profit invites competitors. It is the same concept. If it’s good, other people will either want it or not want you to have it. It may not be fair, but it is life.

4. You are able to take possession of the future God has for you! You can do it. The reason you can do it is because your future is promised to you and God isn’t going to send you into the battles alone. Just like with Israel, there may be several battles but you will win them all as you keep God first and move in obedience. You can do it!

At the end of the day, it’s like the old Gospel song. Whose report will you believe? I choose to believe for the best. It’s hard. Very hard. Sometimes you will have to have faith through the tears. Still, have faith! What you think and say about yourself and your situation matter for everything! Before you can move into your next season of life, you must convince yourself that your end is going to be better than your present. You have to know that God is with you and has not abandoned you. You have to know there will be profit in all the hard work you put in.


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Jumat, 14 Oktober 2011

"The 12 Elements of a Winning Business Idea"


So...how do you know a good business idea when you see it? It's really all about studying the business model. Most successful businesses have more in common than they have different and knowing the commonalities can save you a lot of headaches and make you a lot of money. Therefore, whether it's waste disposal or concrete mixing or baking, focus on building your business based on a proven model - it's structure - and you'll increase your chances of success.

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A business model is the way that costs and potential revenues interact. Put another way, a model is the structure that a particular business will use to get raw materials, add value, and sell the finished product to the market. Therefore, there are three main components to a business model:

(1) The markets and customers
(2) The services and products to be offered
(3) The distribution method

There are five rules of good business models according to Seth Godin, author of The Bootstrapper’s Bible: How to Start and Build a Business with a Great Idea and (almost) No Money (along with many, many other thought-leading books). According to Godin, one of the best business and marketing minds of the last couple of decades, a good model should be as follows:

1. Profitable – You should be certain that the revenues from sales exceed the costs of obtaining raw materials (supplies and labor) and adding your value by developing the finished product.

2. Protectible – It should be relatively difficult for a competitor to enter your market. You should at least be able to see competitors coming so that you can account for them.

3. Self-priming – Not only should your model be profitable, but each sale should generate enough profit to allow you to develop a new finished product and retain some earnings.

4. Adjustable – What happens when your competitors prove to be more formidable than you once thought? You have got to be able to change the way you do business to survive.

5. Exitable – There should be an exit strategy for your partners, investors, and for yourself. This means that even though your business might revolve around you at the onset, you should be able to build it to a point of being able to function without you.
Once you decide the specific business that you are most interested in pursuing, you should follow these guidelines of business modeling in order to increase your chances of lasting success.

Does a market exist? After all, you will need customers, right? For example, let’s say that you are the world’s foremost expert on asbestos. Asbestos is your life and you think about it all the time. Then, let’s say that you have developed a way to sell asbestos products via the Internet and have representatives local to the customer deliver them. Do you think that you will have an adequate market to allow you to reach your business revenue goals? Probably not. Asbestos sales aren’t exactly peaking right now.

I acknowledge that the example sounds silly. However, I can assure you that many people commit similar errors everyday. You must be fairly certain through observation or study that a market exists for your product. Furthermore, the market must be large enough to maintain your business. Finally, people should find it easy to understand the benefit that they receive from buying your service. People spend money to solve their problems. Are there a lot of people with the problem that you want to solve? Are they willing to pay you what you are asking to do so?

Here are a few more elements of a good business model to consider from my study, research and face-to-face interviews with successful entrepreneurs. I went back through my notes from reading books like "Good to Great" by Jim Collins and Michael Dell's writings about his successes with Dell Computers. I also poured through The Great Game of Business by Jack Stack, Rich Dad, Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki and The E-Myth Revisited by Michael Gerber...and dozens more. I also went through my notes from meetings with many of the most successful businessmen I've met over the years.

I blogged on some other books that I like a while back! Here are other things to look for and/or incorporate into your business model:

6. Large potential market that is (hopefully) unorganized and disjointed. One of the things Michael Dell most appreciated about the personal computing market was that many people wanted their own devices, but no one company had stepped forward to dedicate their efforts to solving that one single problem. In fact, people wanted a product so much that they were making their own computers. Dell did the same, as we know, starting off in his dorm room at The University of Texas. Soon he was in demand to make computers for other people and the rest is history. These days, there are a lot of problems out there to be solved. Can you find one begging for a solution?

7. Recurring revenue. Ideally, you want to be involved in a business that incorporates recurring revenue streams as much as possible. When you have that, once you've covered your customer acquisition costs, you'll be in the position to realize profits for the remaining life of that customer. I believe recurring revenues may be the most important element to consider when you're looking at a business idea. If you don't have recurring revenues, you need to be sure to have a way of capturing new customers and servicing them in a very cost-effective manner to be profitable.

8. Breakage. Warranties are a great example of "breakage" in action. It's a simple concept: people pay for services they may not fully consume. Another great example are health club memberships. There are sometimes ethical challenges to incorporating breakage into your business model. Here's the key: you MUST be set up to provide services if and when demanded every single time. In the case of a warranty, if people need service on their appliance, you MUST provide it. It's not an acceptable excuse that you never planned on providing service! On the other hand, if a business is able to sell a warranty, it normally turns into profit instantly. That's why Best Buy pushes them so hard!

9. Reasonably low barriers to entry (skills, capital, legal/regulatory). Whether in terms of the legal and regulatory environment or other factors, for most people it's best to enter a business without barriers set up to hinder them. Infrastructure can be another substantial hindrance. If you want to build a competitive railroad line, you need access to railways. That might be difficult to obtain. It might be easier to provide services within societal infrastructures already existing.

10. Scalable. The best businesses are easy to expand from a small operation to a large or much larger one. "Easy" is a relative term. I understand that. However - and Kiyosaki talks about this a lot - if your business requires rebuilding every time orders increase, you have to reexamine your structure and finds one that scales better. Solopreneurs struggle with this. Let's say you're offering personal chef services? You might be okay with ten clients, but what if you get 100 calls tomorrow? Can you even take 100 calls? It's best to build for scale from the very beginning. I call this "planning to succeed" because you should account for an idea really taking off as well as planning for challenging times.

11. Duplicatable. The best businesses can be duplicated. Once it works, you can take it from market to market to market or set up people to operate your business in other locations. If you're providing a specific product, in what ways can you repeat the process over and over and lowering your production costs? This is where the great Henry Ford changed the American economy. He popularized the assembly line.

12. Leverages current resources. Most entrepreneurs are going to be better off starting where they are and using the skills, resources, capital and people available to them already. Acres of Diamonds, the famous speech turned book by Russell Conwell, talks eloquently about how much most people already have available to us as we're out searching for riches elsewhere or bemoaning their lack. You can download a free copy of Acres of Diamonds here: LINK

Now that you have determined your specific business and you have done some thinking about how you will organize your company, and you are pretty sure that there are customers in the market, you are ready to start planning. If you need a simple, basic business plan to start working through your ideas, use this one: The One-Page Business Plan.

If you have other questions, get in touch with me. Entrepreneurship as a sole source of income or as part of a strategy to build multiple sources of income is going to be increasingly important in the coming months and years...more than it has ever been before!

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